“You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.” - Roy T. Bennett
In order to create confidence we need to dismantle the picket fence mentality.
Many beautiful people have a picket fence mentality that has been passed down through the generations.
They absolutely know where their boundaries are located.
There are generally four solid corner posts that maintain their fence brilliantly. These are fear, security, image and purpose.
Don’t even think about moving their fence as this causes incredible stress and frustration in their lives. They are going nowhere fast. They don’t know that they don’t know.
They would love to attempt to change something in their lives but fear always blocks their path with anxiety, scarcity and every other debilitating and toxic entity. That corner post goes down very deep into their deeper minds and it is superbly entrenched.
The right side of the picket fence mentality is security. They believe that as long as the picket fence is sturdy, it will provide them with stability and longevity.
Security does not exist.
It is an idea that is outdated and purposeless as it prevents people from stretching from their picket fence mentality. Media and everyone else on the planet will pitch their silver bullet, as they believe it will provide people with the security that they are seeking.
You are your own silver bullet.
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