14 Mar

"I think everybody in this country should learn how to program a computer, should learn a computer language, because it teaches you how to think.” – Steve Jobs

Steve is probably right regarding the thinking part however everyone on the planet already has an embedded DNA and psychological code in their very own personal hard drive.

Genetic and environmental factors have played a huge part in the development of this very specific code. This code creates a program or paradigm.

All of our sensory factors continue to input more information daily as this program or paradigm develops throughout life.

All of our evolving beliefs, habits etc. are tossed into the mix.

How does this work?

People are either listening or hearing and the dialogue goes one way or another based on congruency with the individual’s program or paradigm.

As a result, it is very easy to slant towards a subconscious or conscious prejudice regarding anything.

Authentic listening is crucial as it prevents reaction but encourages appropriate response instead.

This is not easy as it takes emotional intelligence to circumvent inappropriate reaction.

Learn this very early in life and you will avoid some of the pitfalls that will certainly bombard you on your journey.

Enjoy the moments as they are swiftly moving and you will never be able to recapture that space in time again.


Coach Franco Cianflone


Carpe Momentum

Mental Toughness For Life

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